I quote...

"The only article Lady Fortuna (fate) has no control over you is your behavior".

-Nassim Nicholas Taleb.

So I say live with style and with grace,loose with dignity and win with humility. Never complain over what hits your way,just take it as a man or a woman cause we have grace and we look at mishaps in their face and say no you don't break me. It's life,it is the way it is and we take it as it is cause we're graceful.